5 Stages of Grief
March 31, 2012 
Grief or sadness. People hate it, even some are like it.
When we face that feelings, there are stages could we face and our choice to take which one.
People said, there are 5 stages of grief.
1. Denial
People denies all sadness and don’t even care of it. just let it go.
For some reasons, it’s good, but, you could be unfeeling people. so sad of it.
2. Anger
This stage, people do no accept it, but be anger of the sadness. All things must be for a reason, and when things aren’t going well, the cause must be accused. there is no acceptance at all here. scary huh?
3. Bargaining
This stage is bargaining the grief, could it be removed or postponed? too much thinking, too much task to do. Remember, priority counts!
4. Depression
False acceptance. All sadness aren’t going to make u depress always. Let it be gone, everything happens for a good reason!
5. Acceptance
The last, acceptance. what bible said about it?
Psalm 139:14
“I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.” (KJV)
John 6:37
“All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never cast out.” (ESV)
All done, no need to think, time to act!
Praise the Lord always. 😀
Blessing Quote(s) is everywhere…
The biggest thing in this world is LOVE..
What does God say about it??
1 Corinthians 13:4–8a
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails. (NIV)
woghhh… Love never fails.. Really??
But why do many people fail on their love experience(s)?
The matters aren’t in the love itself, but, it’s in the PERSON..How many times we break our promises? or in deeply word as known as COMMITMENT.
Love isn’t feeling, love is DECISION..!!
When u love someone, your friend, best friend, family, etc, you decide/commit to love them in any matters, any circumstances, any time, any where, just the way you decision is.
I got inspired always by Him. If Jesus used His feeling, didn’t use His commitment, I can’t imagine what I am right now. Even He must be crossed, He must lift the cross alone to Golgotha, but, He commits it. What u said, u do.
Marriage is talk much about commitment, if you aren’t quite mature to commit wholeheartedly, never try even thinking about courtship! Ever!
Let’s learn and learn, be humble, through Him we can do anything! Jesus bless you.
#don’t worry, God surely prepares the moment..^^
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